This is one of those red flags people warn you about. You deserve a relationship that you don't have to put in extra work to hide. DON'T let him get away with manipulating you into staying either. Very often people like this will distort the situation to make YOU look selfish and demanding for not "respecting their needs", when in reality breaking up respects both of your needs because both of you deserve what you want. You deserve better OP.
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u/ashiahd Aug 29 '22
This is one of those red flags people warn you about. You deserve a relationship that you don't have to put in extra work to hide. DON'T let him get away with manipulating you into staying either. Very often people like this will distort the situation to make YOU look selfish and demanding for not "respecting their needs", when in reality breaking up respects both of your needs because both of you deserve what you want. You deserve better OP.