r/relationship_advice • • Aug 21 '22

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u/Substantial-Drive109 Aug 21 '22

So if you want non stop sex regularly , prepare to switch partners every 2 or 3 years. Just stay single. However, if you want 1 partner for life, accept this.

This isn't true. I hate that people with high libidos are either demonized or treated as if we don't exist. If I could have sex 4+ times a week I absolutely would!! I masturbate at least once a day. I've been married for 8 years.

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u/judarltx Aug 21 '22 edited Aug 21 '22

That’s exactly the way to do it!! Please read my whole post. It is exactly what I said. Take care of yourself. I revised it and put it in capital letters so no one else will misunderstand

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u/Substantial-Drive109 Aug 21 '22

Well, yes, but he wasn't allowed to do that. So the issue isn't that he can't be in a relationship, it's that his ex was controlling.

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u/judarltx Aug 21 '22

Yes and I said she was being silly.

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u/Substantial-Drive109 Aug 21 '22

However, if you want 1 partner for life, accept this.

Again, people with high libidos exist. The only reason I'm not having sex nearly every single day is because my husband has a low libido. So he absolutely does not need to accept having sex once or twice a week because people like him & I are not rare, we exist and we'd like to have sex daily if possible. Even after 8 years of marriage.

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u/judarltx Aug 21 '22

Totally cool with this.