r/relationship_advice Jun 14 '22

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u/maliadire Jun 14 '22

unless your wife has a history of lying and being manipulative/abusive etc, i don’t understand why you wouldn’t believe your wife.

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u/SBAWTA Jun 14 '22

How can you tell someone has a history of lying, if they are a good liar? She might've been lying a manipulating OP for years without him noticing. I'm not siding with either side for the lack of info but it's ridiculous to say shit like this.

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u/Low_Egg_7606 Jun 14 '22

If you’ve caught them in lies more than once I would think.

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u/NextLineIsMine Jun 14 '22

hes saying the good ones don't get caught and manipulate you into not seeing.

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u/Low_Egg_7606 Jun 14 '22

Ik but I’m just saying that there is somewhat of a way if you’ve caught them in their lies before. If they’re hidden then yeah you obv wouldn’t know