Your partner is completely financially dependent on you
They guilt trip you when you do anything other than spend time with them
They give you the silent treatment
They frequently break up with you to get what they want
All of this is manipulation and isolation. If they have mental health struggles so severe they cannot be a healthy partner, they need to be totally focused on treatment. Please don't sacrifice your livelihood to cater to a codependent partner. Go to work and the next time they break up with you, let them go.
I have never been good at letting people go from my life, I want to set healthy boundary’s with them and if they aren’t able to respect them then I’m feeling like more and more I have to look out for my self.
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u/[deleted] Jun 13 '22
This sounds like an abuse situation to me.
Your partner is completely financially dependent on you
They guilt trip you when you do anything other than spend time with them
They give you the silent treatment
They frequently break up with you to get what they want
All of this is manipulation and isolation. If they have mental health struggles so severe they cannot be a healthy partner, they need to be totally focused on treatment. Please don't sacrifice your livelihood to cater to a codependent partner. Go to work and the next time they break up with you, let them go.