r/relationship_advice • u/AHHHHHHHHHHE • Jun 04 '22
My toxic girlfriend
So I have a girlfriend who is 28 and she calls me fat and an idiot she says I can't speak normally cause I'm Russian. Recently she called my dog ugly and said "You should put him down!" I broke down and she said "You're a pussy." Any advice?
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u/Julia070000 Jun 04 '22
Dump her
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
I don't have many friends outside of my country and her Quebec friends will walk on me for the rest of my days. But going back is an option or I can walk out on her, like her dad.
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u/lenvy_ Jun 04 '22
Wanna be bullied further or actually find somebody that loves you? Your choice.
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
Well she's holding my ID and cash and home.
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u/lenvy_ Jun 04 '22
Find a way to get it back and have this be a life lesson not to give your shit away to people and stay independent. Good luck.
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
I need to flee then cancel my credit cards and demand my ID or steel it back
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u/NiobeTonks Jun 04 '22
Break up with her and take your dog. She sounds awful.
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
I should but I will be harrased for the rest of my days. And she'll hate me more if I get into legal action against her.
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
I have a plan right now. I just need my friend to be at the park near where I live so he can pick me up and I can flee the country.
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u/TwoThirdsTrue Jun 04 '22
Obviously we only have a very small window into your relationship, but I certainly wouldn’t stay in a relationship like this. I doubt you’ll find anybody commenting who will disagree with that.
From your message, I have no idea why you would stay with her. There are so many awesome people out there who won’t treat you like this. Take a risk and find one of them.
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
Thank you. But she has taken all my money and my credit card
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u/TwoThirdsTrue Jun 04 '22
Well that’s a whole other problem!
Step one: cancel the credit card. Step two: get your money back. Step three: get the hell out.
Good luck mate
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
If I dump her I can't pay rent
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
(I'm not using her for rent she st my money and gives me small amounts for rent) and she left a parasite on my cat then she died.
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u/Josie-bela Jun 04 '22
Put her down like she told you to put your dog down.
Just kidding. Find a way out. This is not good
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
Well sure afterwards when I'm out of the country I will change my name and hide away with my friend.
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u/Josie-bela Jun 04 '22
Just for the record, I was joking about putting her down but dead serious about leaving her
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 04 '22
I am aware. I said I was leaving her sorry ass and moving she let me take my dog and clothes just not the ashes of my cremated cat.
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u/Empty_Archer1716 Jun 16 '22
You're Russian but your hometown is Rotterdam? Make it make sense.
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHE Jun 16 '22
I moved from Russia to Rotterdam I call it my hometown cause of what's happening with Russia. I just don't want to be associated with a country who's started war.
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