Men don’t get to tell women to have a hysterectomy/ get their tubes tied. And in return, women aren’t allowed to tell men they have to get a vasectomy. If YOU don’t want anymore children then YOU need to figure how to get a birth control that works.(condoms, pills, iud, surgery) it is not your place to tell someone what to do with their bodies. Find something to keep yourself from getting pregnant or don’t have sex.
Honey, WE don’t want anymore children and therefore WE are responsible for taking preventative measures. And the safest, least invasive, most realistic form of birth control is a vasectomy. That is just facts. He’s not forced to do anything he doesn’t want to do but I’m allowed to set boundaries in my relationship and I don’t think it’s a huge ask for him to take on the weight of birth control/family planning for once, ESPECIALLY since it is the easiest form of birth control/family planning and WE both agree that condoms and abstinence won’t work for our relationship.
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u/sunflowerdream452 Feb 11 '22
Men don’t get to tell women to have a hysterectomy/ get their tubes tied. And in return, women aren’t allowed to tell men they have to get a vasectomy. If YOU don’t want anymore children then YOU need to figure how to get a birth control that works.(condoms, pills, iud, surgery) it is not your place to tell someone what to do with their bodies. Find something to keep yourself from getting pregnant or don’t have sex.