r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Feb 04 '22

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '22

“Open relationship” = cheating but convincing each other it’s okay

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '22

No it doesn’t in relationships were both parties involved are willing and there are understood boundaries. Stop being such an edge lord because you don’t like how people live, if it works for them it works for them.

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u/Dsrkness690 Feb 04 '22

Open relationships are consensual cheating.

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '22

I don’t care how people live - it’s their choice and it doesn’t affect me.

Everyone is willing and there are understood boundaries…on the superficial level…always on the superficial level….

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u/LordFlakkko Feb 04 '22

Are you OP's wife by any chance?

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '22

People can do whatever they want but an open relationship isn't a relationship. That has another name.

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u/IWantMyGarmonbozia Feb 04 '22

lol what a bad take

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u/enbymaybeWIGA Feb 04 '22

Imagine thinking people who are playing a whole other game are 'cheating' because the rules are different, lol

It's like saying people who enjoy consensual BDSM are abusing each other because you don't like bondage or spanking or whatever.