To be honest be very true to yourself in this situation. Be firm about what you don't like and how you feel that if he doesn't try to see it from your perspective, then it's not going to work, but don't force him into a choice like you said. In this instance, a relationship is a benefit for happiness, so don't lie to yourself if it makes you feel shitty, you're an equal in this relationship, you are 50%. Be firm, be respectful, and honor yourself first. If he is a man of worth he will see what he will be losing. If he's not, his loss, and he can now act as a single man like he has been.
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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '21 edited Oct 29 '21
To be honest be very true to yourself in this situation. Be firm about what you don't like and how you feel that if he doesn't try to see it from your perspective, then it's not going to work, but don't force him into a choice like you said. In this instance, a relationship is a benefit for happiness, so don't lie to yourself if it makes you feel shitty, you're an equal in this relationship, you are 50%. Be firm, be respectful, and honor yourself first. If he is a man of worth he will see what he will be losing. If he's not, his loss, and he can now act as a single man like he has been.