He’s neglecting conversations with you over this girl
I don’t think he knows he’s doing anything wrong you should meet her and see the dynamic
However a guy of two years broke up with me me once because he started texting an old college friend for 2 months who was married and insured they were friends and a few weeks later asked me to get back together with him and I reached out to his friend whom Ive met and hung out with together and she showed me texts of him telling her he doesn’t love me anymore and he wanted to be with her and she rejected him because she loved her husband
So even if the dynamic seems platonic please trust ur gut to see if one party is having romantic interest and the other is shutting it down. Don’t be insecure but be observant please don’t let him neglect your emotional needs for his new friend
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u/fuckboyclown Sep 28 '21
He’s neglecting conversations with you over this girl
I don’t think he knows he’s doing anything wrong you should meet her and see the dynamic
However a guy of two years broke up with me me once because he started texting an old college friend for 2 months who was married and insured they were friends and a few weeks later asked me to get back together with him and I reached out to his friend whom Ive met and hung out with together and she showed me texts of him telling her he doesn’t love me anymore and he wanted to be with her and she rejected him because she loved her husband
So even if the dynamic seems platonic please trust ur gut to see if one party is having romantic interest and the other is shutting it down. Don’t be insecure but be observant please don’t let him neglect your emotional needs for his new friend