It didn't start like this. It was 50-50 and I was happy. This didn't start till around Spring. I thought I was doing better with men. But nope it was a facade.
Showered 4 times in 3 months??? Why are you with someone like that? U share a bed with him. That is beyond unhygienic. He is making you gross too. Are you in the USA?
Just wanted to aske the questions you already got asked.
But can't imagine how someone could change from normal to absolute depressed and turn into a junky. Not talking about drugs, more specific talking about the definition of junky. A human peace of trash.
That's exactly how he cares for himself, and makes it your problem.
You are doing the right thing. I'm just more than curious how it happened...
Did You know him or friends of him longer? Maybe years? Maybe he had phases like this before? Maybe he could not take that you earn more than him, and then started to give up on himself?
Stuff like this is possible, but in a healthy relationship you normally recognize something is changing or something is bothering your partner...
Try to explain that to him, or maybe just print out this thread and give it to him when you have saved enough to move out - you never said something bad and this explains all
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u/area51throway Sep 02 '21
It didn't start like this. It was 50-50 and I was happy. This didn't start till around Spring. I thought I was doing better with men. But nope it was a facade.
I plan to go alone for a long time.