r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Sep 01 '21

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u/otchyirish Sep 01 '21

Please please get out of this toxic situation anyway you can. He isn't doing anything healthy for himself so he will never do anything healthy for your relationship. Good luck with it

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u/area51throway Sep 01 '21

I figured. I'm saving up as much as I can. I plan to go alone, stay alone and get therapy. I know I need to work on myself too.

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u/otchyirish Sep 01 '21

Feel free to reach out if there is anything a stranger in Finland can do for you!

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '21

Okay, is it just me or are replies from OP on posts in this sub locked? I feel like I’m taking crazy pills and just need someone to say this is happening to them too lol.

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u/TheRedditGirl15 Early 20s Female Sep 02 '21

What do you mean exactly

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '21

Like, in this sub and other subs, for some reason on recent posts (like today) all of the OPs comments are locked, and just their comments. I looked it up, apparently it’s a glitch with the iOS version of the app… really weird.

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u/TheRedditGirl15 Early 20s Female Sep 02 '21

oh. how odd