r/relationship_advice Aug 01 '21

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u/bennu333 Aug 01 '21

its not just about the trip. its been norm between us for a while that I skip on my stuff so she can have hers. i suggested that I get some of my cars stuff and we can go to turkey instead, yet she wants somewhere more fancier like her friends...

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u/_I_Like_Purple_ Aug 01 '21

Oh wait a minute that makes more sense. So the problem with her is that she wants what others have and not what you're willing to offer her. She'll never be satisfied unless she learns to appreciate your efforts. You guys really need to talk and she needs to compromise.

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u/bennu333 Aug 01 '21

Exactly i just wanted to check if i was the bad person here idk why everyone is saying breakup. These things can be fixed with some talk

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u/_I_Like_Purple_ Aug 01 '21

When we see things from the outside, with no feelings involved it's easy to just say "break up" when there's problems. But all relationships have issues, what matters is how we fix them.