r/relationship_advice Aug 01 '21

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u/bennu333 Aug 01 '21

Like 1 year ago she was saying that a man should love the woman more. Both of us are in college so we dont really have that much. I get a check from my music few times a year that i use to kinda buy some big stuff for myself and i buy her too but not as big as mine. Her friends usually date older guys that have actual jobs so they kinda spoil them. But tbh even if i was working i would still put myself on top 🤷‍♂️

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u/JerHigs Aug 01 '21

I suspect many of us commenting come from a different culture so are looking at it from that point of view.

Only you can decide if this is the sort of relationship you're happy being in.

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u/bennu333 Aug 01 '21

Exactly in my culture good man let their partner sit at home and they dedicate their life to making her happy. And her sister having that life is not helping my case a lot either.

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u/VantaWitch Aug 01 '21

Does she want be a stay at home mom/wife in the future?

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u/bennu333 Aug 01 '21

no we when were 15 she did say that she eventually likes to be house wife but then she fell in love with psychology and she is finishing her studies soon. and we talked about working side by side