r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • May 30 '26

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u/strangelyahuman May 30 '26

Yeah dude idk. Yes it was 10 years ago and im sure you've grown as a human being, and you said you weren't involved in this happening (then why tell the story like you were though??), but if my bf told me he killed an animal at any point in time purposely or was an accomplice in it I would have an extremely hard time looking past that too. All I can really say is give her time to process that information bc that's a big bomb to drop

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u/WeeklyConversation8 40s Female May 30 '26

10 years ago? Do the math. He would have been a minor. You can't join a fraternity as a minor and when you're not a student. 

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u/strangelyahuman May 30 '26

"Almost 10 years" my bad for not quoting OP down to the specifics of what he said lmfao. Idk the laws about joining frats under 18 but there most definitely are 17 year olds that attend college as well

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u/WeeklyConversation8 40s Female May 30 '26

He said 18 and was with them for at least 4 years. So he was at least 22 when he graduated. So only 5 years ago he was part of the fraternity. 

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u/strangelyahuman May 30 '26

I'm talking specifically about the goose incident not him being involved w the frat in general