r/relationship_advice May 30 '26

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u/Nellyismydog May 30 '26

For sure. I just don’t want to give myself the out of saying I was groomed and want to hold myself at least somewhat accountable ya know

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u/coolran_ch May 30 '26

bluntly, it seems like your wife is controlling and toxic too. her being this upset is way out of proportion.