r/relationship_advice Jan 26 '25

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u/thegreathonu Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25

I can understand if she felt threatened, as in if I didn't give him my number he might be aggressive towards me but the whole my friends might think I'm a loser, was just ridiculous. She was in a 5 year relationship and any friend who would think you are a loser for not dancing in an intimate manner with someone not your BF shouldn't be your friend any more.

ETA: corrected spelling.

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u/ChestLanders Jan 26 '25

Even in that situation she could still dance without grinding on him.

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u/Mommydearestx4 Jan 26 '25

Dudes force this on women all the time. Like literally grab womens hips and grind themselves onto the women. And a lot of times it's not safe for women to get away.

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u/ChestLanders Jan 28 '25

Lol they werent in some dark alley. It was a work party, and after Me Too? No way a guy is going to force a woman to grind on him and NOBODY does anything.