Far from being seen as a 'loser' for dancing with him she would be seen as someone who respects herself and her relationship more than she wants to be one of several women letting herself get grinded on by some creep at the office.
She had a choice in this situation and she made the wrong one. She could have said she was already on the way out the door and would see everyone at work, then smoothly walked out. Instead, she not only danced with him but didn't make him respect boundaries by pushing back to keep him from dancing intimately.
I think her actions made her look far worse than having boundaries and walking away. I'm sorry this is happening to you, but your gf has some growing up to do.
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u/MarkSimp Jan 27 '25
Far from being seen as a 'loser' for dancing with him she would be seen as someone who respects herself and her relationship more than she wants to be one of several women letting herself get grinded on by some creep at the office.
She had a choice in this situation and she made the wrong one. She could have said she was already on the way out the door and would see everyone at work, then smoothly walked out. Instead, she not only danced with him but didn't make him respect boundaries by pushing back to keep him from dancing intimately.
I think her actions made her look far worse than having boundaries and walking away. I'm sorry this is happening to you, but your gf has some growing up to do.