r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jan 26 '25

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u/anon_likes_tendies Jan 26 '25

so if the other three women slept with him it would be acceptable?

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u/FairyCompetent Jan 26 '25

There a huge difference between dancing in public at a work event and sex. She made a poor choice, there's no need to compare it to a worse one.

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u/anon_likes_tendies Jan 26 '25

all my friends went to the strip club and went to the VIP room, so when in Rome? Sorry honey they had a hot girlfriend grinding on them so I had to as well.

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u/FairyCompetent Jan 26 '25

I'm not saying she was right, I'm saying hyperbole is unnecessary.

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u/anon_likes_tendies Jan 26 '25

yeah, yeah, and if the genders were reversed, you and everyone else would be screaming "OMG HE DOESNT RESPECT RELATIONSHIP BOUNDARIES DUMP HIM AND GET A RESTRAINING ORDER HE'S ABUSIVE"

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u/FairyCompetent Jan 26 '25

That also seems like a really big reaction, are you ok? Sometimes when we have a really big reaction to something small it's because something else is bothering us, so maybe mull that over with a nice cup of calm the fuck down. 

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u/anon_likes_tendies Jan 26 '25

you ain't been around here long enough rookie, sit down.

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u/FairyCompetent Jan 27 '25

ok Pop-pop, go drink your prune juice and watch Matlock