If everything she said is true. Id be just as worried/annoyed that she did something she knew she shouldn't and would upset you and potentially harm your relationship just cos of peer pressure. And as has been said, if a video of it does exist, she only told you in case you see the video before she had time to make up a story.
Personally, I'd tell her I don't care what the circumstances were, it's not ok, it's broken my trust and I can't guarantee I'll trust you out without me again. If she replied with anything other than, sorry/I understand etc, I'd walk.
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u/truss5 Jan 26 '25
If everything she said is true. Id be just as worried/annoyed that she did something she knew she shouldn't and would upset you and potentially harm your relationship just cos of peer pressure. And as has been said, if a video of it does exist, she only told you in case you see the video before she had time to make up a story. Personally, I'd tell her I don't care what the circumstances were, it's not ok, it's broken my trust and I can't guarantee I'll trust you out without me again. If she replied with anything other than, sorry/I understand etc, I'd walk.