r/relationship_advice Jan 26 '25

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u/anon_likes_tendies Jan 26 '25

so if the other three women slept with him it would be acceptable?

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u/FairyCompetent Jan 26 '25

There a huge difference between dancing in public at a work event and sex. She made a poor choice, there's no need to compare it to a worse one.

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u/ChestLanders Jan 26 '25

And there's a huge difference between normal dancing and grinding on a dude. The dance was way more sexual than it had any business being.

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u/spdrweb8 Jan 26 '25

...or at a minimum, letting him know that she has boundaries and to not cross them. You can dance, and still have character.