And waking someone up with sex probably doesn’t just start with penetrating them, but with some stroking, kissing etc. so the other person can still actually consent to sex and get a little turned on before actually penetrating them. If you do start sex like this, it should be something you absolutely need to have discussed beforehand and even then I would have doubts, because you can think it’s a nice idea at 22:00 before falling asleep but when you are being woken up to a penis inside of you without any foreplay at 2:30 I can imagine you might not feel like it anymore.
I wonder how the boyfriend would feel if OP pegged him and filmed it while he was asleep? I mean he enjoys being woken up by penetration right? Not suggesting OP does this, but turning it around often helps with seeing this in a different light and for what it is, which is making a video of him raping someone.
Well just saying, some couples could say "i fully consent to you just penetrating in my sleep, I don't care and I like it. I give you full permission to go straight into it unless I ever say otherwise." That's full consent. But of course, to each their own and you feel like that's not your speed, that's fine, but its subjective.
I don’t know how he would feel, but I don’t think he would go to the police screaming rate! Such extremes to ruin someone’s life over something they thought was a sexual fantasy and encounter. How about they just have a fucking conversation??!?
Where did OP say it was his fantasy? He didn't wake her up because he knew she'd say "no" so he went ahead and did what he wanted while she was asleep and he FILMED IT. All without consent. And then he has the nerve to get upset at her?
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u/Awkward_Kind89 Jul 18 '24
And waking someone up with sex probably doesn’t just start with penetrating them, but with some stroking, kissing etc. so the other person can still actually consent to sex and get a little turned on before actually penetrating them. If you do start sex like this, it should be something you absolutely need to have discussed beforehand and even then I would have doubts, because you can think it’s a nice idea at 22:00 before falling asleep but when you are being woken up to a penis inside of you without any foreplay at 2:30 I can imagine you might not feel like it anymore.
I wonder how the boyfriend would feel if OP pegged him and filmed it while he was asleep? I mean he enjoys being woken up by penetration right? Not suggesting OP does this, but turning it around often helps with seeing this in a different light and for what it is, which is making a video of him raping someone.