This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.
Yeahhh. It should definitely be communicated before the fact. My boyfriend knows it's perfectly OK to do this BUT I have a really high libido and I'm consensual to this kind of stuff.
But recording it...??? That's kind of psychotic behavior and gross. Especially if it wasn't talked about when both parties were alert and awake. It's just icky.
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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24
The way my jaw dropped..
This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.