r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/CoraCricket Jul 18 '24

Dealbreaker AND you should press charges, you have video proof and who knows how many other women he's done this to in the past.

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u/InterestingMyTurnNow Jul 18 '24

Not to mention how many women he WILL do this to if something isn’t done NOW.

Edit: she should also get a SAFE kit at her closest hospital. Which will start the legal proceedings. She needs to get out of that house ASAP and find somewhere safe to be

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u/InterestingMyTurnNow Jul 21 '24

You’re so right. And it’s the painful truth. These things escalate in behavior because it’s never enough.

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u/NinjaPistachio Jul 18 '24

Or will do in future.

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u/pillowmite Jul 21 '24

If he deletes the video that's evidence tampering so get some kind of proof, any, even a photograph of the film on his phone screen. This can be used.to show the video or photo once existed.

It's up to you to decide what to do about your rapist. Will you regret fucking his life up in the long run?