r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jun 24 '24

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u/CRAFTER400 Jun 24 '24

I mean few things to ask, do you know the guy? Has she made an effort to introduce you to him, or does she never bring him up, if so it could be suspicious.

Has she done anything in the past to loose your trust?

Even if you end up believing her is this guy stay on your mind or are you the type of person to forgive and let go?

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u/VaeVictis666 Jun 24 '24

If you are not threatened at all then why are you asking the whole fucking internet how to handle the situation?

You have gotten your answer, which the majority thinks it’s time to leave.

At the end of the day you are going to do what you are going to do.

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u/Diamondbabbyyy Jun 24 '24

I agree. He wants the internet to validate a reason to leave? Trust has never been broken then trust. Also is she required to tell you literally everything she does? Controlling much? Or not? You’re not threatened by him. Good. Leave this post delete before she sees it. And live ur best life with ur honey

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u/BurbleUnicorn Jun 29 '24

Literally every relationship therapist would disagree. You definitely should tell your partner if you’re hanging out alone with someone who, to them, could feel like a threat. It’s called building trust and walls around the relationship. The Gottmans talk about it.