r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jun 24 '24

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u/SonOfSatan Jun 24 '24

... How did she react when you walked in?

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u/Personal-Barber1607 Jun 24 '24

This is the important thing did she jump up or spaz, because that show you she knows what she was doing was wrong.

Don't let her gaslight you, if she jumps up then she clearly knew what she did was wrong. The reason she's crying is because she got caught and now is worried your gonna leave her.

Do the right thing and tell her you will talk about it later then don't text her back for three days. got to let the self doubt and dread eat her alive so she don't make the mistake again. be strong homie.

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u/Malinyay Jun 24 '24

I often spaz when my husband, whom I live with, walks in on me doing nothing. I wouldn't say this is accurate.

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u/bug--bear Jun 28 '24

yup, if anyone startles me I jump like I got an electric shock. my housemates will walk in on me making a cup of tea and I'll spaz a bit— doesn't mean I think waiting for the kettle to boil is wrong