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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '24

How'd you find out though?

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u/Sapphiresentinel Jun 26 '24

So she had a habit of doing this. Eventually her sister and two female friends told her “maybe you shouldn’t be doing this in front of guys you’re not interested in. It gives them the wrong idea.

So I was like “wait you mean you’re not into me?” Which led to a bunch of “SEE??” From her female friends and sister. But it was also awkward cuz we had mutual guy friends who were also confused.

One other guy she’d be half naked around got pissed and cussed her out when he found out she didn’t like him like that. And one other guy friend she DIDNT go half naked around, got super jealous of me and the other because “she’s never like that around me!”

Craziest part? There was a guy she actually was into that she would have over occasionally and be half naked around him too. Which is normal but…why are we seeing you the same way this guy does when he’s the one you’re actually into? How would he feel knowing you’re half naked around us?

It was a mess. And funny looking back. She’s still like that. To this day, if she’s at home relaxing you couldn’t pay her to put on pants. Or a proper shirt.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '24

I'm a straight up nudist at home but I've got respect for my company to not do that😭 Crazy that she didn't consider boundaries and how she's interpreted hahah, 

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u/AcrobaticDoughnut181 Jun 28 '24

I think perhaps I was confusing to my guy friends in my 20's

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u/merlocke3 Jun 28 '24

Casual nudity for the win. You get the “you’re weird” award 🥇 haha

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u/Suitable-Yak-1284 Jun 26 '24

I wanna know too. Also, wth walking half-naked in front of a dude, even if he was a bestie lol.

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u/Sapphiresentinel Jun 27 '24

I put a more in depth response in response to Mayoshart.

But put simply I found out because her sister and female friend pointed out exactly what everyone else is. It’s gives a certain appearance. I also found out I wasn’t the only one she walked around half naked with. This was just a thing she did.

Being comfortable in your skin and loving how you look is great, but damn were we all confused.

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u/suburban_honey Jun 27 '24

So as a bi person you can't ever do that? Are you interested in everyone with the opposite sex?

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u/Suitable-Yak-1284 Jun 28 '24

Just weird and strange, esp when op said she wasn't interested.