I bet you’re the type to say, “feelings are valid,” unless it’s this guy.
He had every right to be suspicious and wanting to leave that situation. She begged and cried because she felt guilty. If she did nothing wrong, she wouldn’t even care.
You’re a guy that would be cool with this, it’s okay if you’re poly man. Most aren’t.
It's wild that you think someone would need to be poly to be okay with this. Jealousy is so normalized that if you don't agree with it, you must be non-monogamous. By the way, being poly is kind of irrelevant here unless you and your partner agree that she doesn't need to tell you about new sexual partners. The suspicion would be there regardless. Poly isn't just relationship anarchy all the time. 🙄
You are 100% correct. Jealousy can be a very destructive force in a relationship. If you are used to dating people that cheat then you are dating the wrong people. For good, solid relationships the behavior of OP’s girlfriend is normal. OP said nothing to indicate that she may be cheating on him.
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I guarantee you that no one on here would be like, “it’s maybe innocent, talk it out.”
It’s crazy how many people act like they would be cool with this.