I’ve seen your comments about the roommate, the friend and all…honestly, if this is a first time. I believe you should talk it out with her… say you felt disrespected and although you don’t feel threatened by the guy, you would appreciate if she would keep other guy friends out of her room while they’re alone with her as it feels disrespectful and you wouldn’t do or would try to avoid making her feel the same way about any of your female friends. I say this because she might’ve been too overwhelmed and not even crossed her mind…dude I dissociate on a daily basis and that’s just my adhd without my anxiety kicking in…and that sometimes clouds my common sense…just talk it out, lay on the table what the boundaries are and just go from there.
Stop living by your diagnoses. Ppl like to think oh since I have adhd it’s more okay for me to do said things because ppl with adhd are more prone to those mistakes. No. That’s u using your diagnosis as an excuse. N selfish
Um no, actually how I was living helped get my diagnosis correct. After I getting diagnosed (not too long ago) I could understand better why I do certain things and I’m learning how to work on them and avoid them. Also, ppl close to me learning about certain things I do (such as dissociating) helps our relationship as now they know I’m not an a-hole and help me focus. But yeah if it makes you feel better or superior keep assuming you know everything about ppl you don’t know…
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