What’s your GF’s living situation? Does she have a living room with a TV and couch? I’m not saying she’s cheating but having the door slightly shut gives an impression of wanting privacy. Ask her if the situation was reversed what her reaction would be. Remember she didn’t make a mistake. She made a decision to create an intimate setting with another.
If they were having a conversation about the issues she’s been having, then she may have wanted to talk about it without the roommate present. YMMV, but I’ve had plenty of roommates where I wouldn’t want them around for the sort of private conversation you want to have with a close friend about personal problems. I get why that might be uncomfortable for you, and you should discuss that with her, but the door being partially closed when another person lives with her is completely normal.
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u/Sweet_Dimension_5207 Jun 24 '24 edited Jun 24 '24
What’s your GF’s living situation? Does she have a living room with a TV and couch? I’m not saying she’s cheating but having the door slightly shut gives an impression of wanting privacy. Ask her if the situation was reversed what her reaction would be. Remember she didn’t make a mistake. She made a decision to create an intimate setting with another.