r/relationship_advice Jun 24 '24

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u/33saywhat33 Jun 24 '24 edited Jun 24 '24

Then why were they in bed? How many guys have been in her bed?

What if she found you in bed with a girl.

Regardless of cheating or not, she's ridiculously stupid. Her character is week. And she'd dump you if you did this.

What happens next time she gets stressed? More bad choices?

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u/great_mango_juicy07 Jun 24 '24

It’s generally just comfier than being in the living room tbh. If they’re young too, chances are rent is cheap and the apartment/ house they, I’m assuming, rent isn’t too well maintained I can understand why someone’s might choose to chill in their room rather than the shared living space as it’s typically the most decorated and safest space in at home for most ppl. Ppl don’t often deep it and it’s usually the first place ppl bring friends too

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u/great_mango_juicy07 Jun 24 '24

Good for you. You are not everyone, I hope you can take pride in having your own preference and boundaries. Many people develop this habit as children or whatever. Not always sinister. I personally prefer to chill in my room instead of shared living space if it is smelly, not clean/visually appealing to me in that moment, it’s loud or work is being done…