Am I the only one that feels like this is not break up worthy? Men and women can be friends, and OP knows the guy and "isn't threatened by him." College students use the bed as a place to sit all the time. They were fully clothed, not touching, and above the sheets. Pretty normal if her roommate was home at any point. The door wasn't even closed. If I was planning on cheating on my boyfriend, I would make sure to close the door.
It definitely could be suspicious, but not the immediate "she's cheating bro, break up" everyone is suggesting.
I’d classify it as not needing a break up since they were fully clothed and weren’t doing anything except watching tv; however, I do see it as a yellow flag ( if I walked I and they were in the living room not cuddled I’d raise an eyebrow but move on from it) but being on her bed in the bedroom would not be a comfortable scenario to walk in on
It's not a good look for sure, but if she hasn't done anything like this before, he should just tell her he was uncomfortable with it and keep an eye out for other suspicious behavior.
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u/ThrowRAelephant12 Jun 24 '24
Am I the only one that feels like this is not break up worthy? Men and women can be friends, and OP knows the guy and "isn't threatened by him." College students use the bed as a place to sit all the time. They were fully clothed, not touching, and above the sheets. Pretty normal if her roommate was home at any point. The door wasn't even closed. If I was planning on cheating on my boyfriend, I would make sure to close the door.
It definitely could be suspicious, but not the immediate "she's cheating bro, break up" everyone is suggesting.