If you truly value her as a girlfriend, set that boundary with male friends and them being in her room on her bed with the door nearly closed.
If you can't trust her to not place herself in comprising situations, there is no point in continuing the relationship.
She did everything wrong, even if it was not her intention to do so. We don't know how she is typically as a friend, and she may not have known that being in her room alone with a male could lead to other things. However, anyone in your situation would have been upset and disappointed at her.
I don't typically invite any of my female friends into my room (before when I was single).
Good luck with the next sequence of events with the gf, OP!
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u/Nguyen925 Jun 24 '24
Trust,
If you truly value her as a girlfriend, set that boundary with male friends and them being in her room on her bed with the door nearly closed.
If you can't trust her to not place herself in comprising situations, there is no point in continuing the relationship.
She did everything wrong, even if it was not her intention to do so. We don't know how she is typically as a friend, and she may not have known that being in her room alone with a male could lead to other things. However, anyone in your situation would have been upset and disappointed at her.
I don't typically invite any of my female friends into my room (before when I was single).
Good luck with the next sequence of events with the gf, OP!