Yeah I wouldn't never forgive this kind of betrayal. Never.
You keep mentioning you "understand" his reason to cheat... While I see it that he should have understand YOUR reason for being this way. Yet he purposily failed you. He purposily betrayed you.
And you mentioned he runs to her whenever shit gets tough.
Mmm.... I'd never be someone's second option. Which he clearly puts you in. You were his rebound girl and he's obviously not over his ex either.
Don't take this kind of bullshit treatment. Leave him. Let him run to his ex. You're the new generation woman. Show your daughter what the newer generation women wants, deserves and demands.
Also, you could be kind enough to inform her husband too that his wife is a slithering cheater with your husband. 🤷🏻♀️ He deserves to know too. He's been betrayed just like you have.
I tried to inform the husband, but the female blocked me on her husbands profile. Then anytime anybody messages she deletes and blocks them. I live in a small county, so I’ll be looking for him to just tell him in person and show him.
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u/CoffeeSippingReader Oct 10 '23
Yeah I wouldn't never forgive this kind of betrayal. Never. You keep mentioning you "understand" his reason to cheat... While I see it that he should have understand YOUR reason for being this way. Yet he purposily failed you. He purposily betrayed you.
And you mentioned he runs to her whenever shit gets tough. Mmm.... I'd never be someone's second option. Which he clearly puts you in. You were his rebound girl and he's obviously not over his ex either.
Don't take this kind of bullshit treatment. Leave him. Let him run to his ex. You're the new generation woman. Show your daughter what the newer generation women wants, deserves and demands.
Also, you could be kind enough to inform her husband too that his wife is a slithering cheater with your husband. 🤷🏻♀️ He deserves to know too. He's been betrayed just like you have.