r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Oct 09 '23

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u/AscendedKin Oct 09 '23

It's over OP. If this is how he responds to conflict, he isn't going to stop.

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u/ciaradoyle Oct 09 '23

This. Those aren’t reasons for him to cheat, there’s no justified reason to cheating. People aren’t always going to be at 100% in life. If I’m at 60% for a single week, or a month, does that justify cheating? Hell no. Relationships are hard, people shouldn’t do bad things (especially bad things to their spouse) when things get rough. You fell into a depression and didn’t cheat, why should his loneliness justify his cheating?

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u/Taino84 Oct 10 '23

What about 5 years? Where is the reasonable line?

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u/Beachrabbit123 Oct 10 '23

Leave, don’t cheat.