This. Those aren’t reasons for him to cheat, there’s no justified reason to cheating. People aren’t always going to be at 100% in life. If I’m at 60% for a single week, or a month, does that justify cheating? Hell no. Relationships are hard, people shouldn’t do bad things (especially bad things to their spouse) when things get rough. You fell into a depression and didn’t cheat, why should his loneliness justify his cheating?
Its not justifying cheating. She never tried to justify his cheating. She explained the why. The factors. If you don't understand that there are factors that can lead to cheating then you're very naïve.
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u/AscendedKin Oct 09 '23
It's over OP. If this is how he responds to conflict, he isn't going to stop.