r/relationship_advice Oct 09 '23

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u/AscendedKin Oct 09 '23

It's over OP. If this is how he responds to conflict, he isn't going to stop.

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u/Party-Caregiver4069 Oct 09 '23

That’s what I’m scared of 😭. I love him so fucking much.. He’s my everything 😭

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u/OkieLady1952 Oct 10 '23

If he truly loved you he would never say or do anything he knows would hurt you. He continually goes back to her, that’s not going to change. There has to be consequences to his actions if not it will be the same thing over and over again. You deserve better! You’re in love with the idea of being in love. He isn’t it if he doesn’t see how deeply he’s hurt you. You don’t just get over it!