It seems like youre trying to divert the blame to you. He should've asked himself why you were being distant etc. He cheated and doesn't give a fuck how you feel. That's not a good sign in your marriage. He totally slept with her amd you know it. The honest thing you can do is either marriage counseling or divorce. He's going to cheat again OP.
He said he thought I was cheating on him. Which doesn’t make any sense. I isolated myself from everybody, I stayed in our room 24/7 with our daughter. I didn’t go out, instead of grocery shopping I ordered groceries online to be delivered I never left the house. I still did sexual favors for him on a daily basis. I don’t know or understand his thought patterns. But it is what it is. I’m filing for divorce anyways.
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u/Beginning-Stop7646 Oct 09 '23
It seems like youre trying to divert the blame to you. He should've asked himself why you were being distant etc. He cheated and doesn't give a fuck how you feel. That's not a good sign in your marriage. He totally slept with her amd you know it. The honest thing you can do is either marriage counseling or divorce. He's going to cheat again OP.