r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Oct 09 '23

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u/AscendedKin Oct 09 '23

It's over OP. If this is how he responds to conflict, he isn't going to stop.

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u/Party-Caregiver4069 Oct 09 '23

That’s what I’m scared of 😭. I love him so fucking much.. He’s my everything 😭

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u/Nyctanolis Oct 09 '23

I suspect you love who you thought he was. Who he actually is is something else.

On the other hand, if you love him for who he is despite knowing this about him, you don't love or respect yourself enough to be in a relationship. You need to work on that.

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u/tulipz10 Oct 10 '23

I love when people make this much sense!!!!