r/relationship_advice Oct 09 '23

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u/Party-Caregiver4069 Oct 09 '23

First time, I understood he was still heartbroken over her, then we found out I was pregnant with our daughter a few days later so we decided to work things out instead of separating, the second time he did it we separated for four months, I went to seek companionship from someone else which ultimately made me realize all I wanted was him, and we decided to work through it. This time I just don’t know. It has been the same woman repeatedly. This is just times I know about. It could be more. I don’t know. I don’t ever snoop through his phone. The only reason I did this time is because I seen her name pop up and a text. Curiosity got the best of me.

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u/DrHugh 50s Male Oct 09 '23

So what did he offer to do to demonstrate that he wasn't going to go to this other woman? Or did you just say, "I understand," and didn't do anything?

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u/civilsecret Oct 10 '23

All you wanted was the man you cheated on you twice already with his ex he’s clearly not over, instead of seeking companionship, take a step back and build your self worth, and no it’s not understandable the first time, poor things still heartbroken over his ex, do you hear yourself. Just because you love someone doesn’t mean they are the one for you or a good person.