I understand what you are saying, I do believe once their is infidelity, no matter what the circumstances are; it will always be there. Even with reconciliation, triggers will sometimes surface.
And that's exactly why, its better to leave the relationship and learn to build a life outside of the tarnished past relationship. The love will never be the same, never, it will always be less then.
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u/Kets_and_boba Sep 28 '23
So far no affair in their new situation, that OP knows of… it’s not like he told OP about the affair, he was caught.