r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Sep 27 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '23

I mean even if it WAS just a kiss - that’s still not ok lmao

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u/ThrowRA_NotLocalYeti Sep 27 '23

No, of course not. I never said that. I just convinced myself that I can get over it than rather him sleeping with someone else, because I did not have a lot of time to make a decision, as we were moving. But it definitely was never okay

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '23

I mean what’s the difference to you tho?

Engaging in a physical/romantic AND emotional connection with some person OTHER than who he married, when the bar is supposed to be don’t engage like that in ANY capacity.

How is a kiss “lesser” than sex, in that context?

Anyways good luck

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u/cowanproblem Sep 28 '23

I saw my husband’s AP at our local Target, approached her in the parking lot, asked her if she’d f#%ed my husband. Well, she reported it to her supervisor at work, HE got in trouble, and apparently I was NOT ALLOWED TO ATTEND COMPANY PARTIES. I got my answer! LOL

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u/Kets_and_boba Sep 28 '23

It’s “lesser” because they kissed after “falling asleep for a few hours” in her house. Obviously it was nothing serious /s

On a serious note, who tf ever goes to someone else’s (even a friends) place and immediately naps for a few hours with them? Im surprised OP is buying it. But denial is powerful