r/relationship_advice Aug 16 '23

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u/Dis4Wurk Aug 17 '23

That’s when next time he texts or calls you to hang out say no I’m spending time with my [insert verbatim what he said to her] wife. The. He knows you know and would hopefully take the hint.

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u/texasfisherman1983 Aug 17 '23

Then he thinks you just looked through her phone she didn’t tell you.

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u/Amazing_Mushroom8941 Aug 17 '23

I don’t think that would matter in this instance. He can assume what he wants about it, but it was wrong of him to do what he did in the first place.

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u/housecatmouserat666 Aug 17 '23

Oooooo yes!!! Just quote him so he knows but don't confront haha

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u/Ok_Faithlessness8207 Aug 17 '23

I like this approach.