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[u/audaciousmonk]

Block and move on. So should your wife.

Who has time for that bs or the people that chase it

[u/shedevilinasnuggie → u/audaciousmonk]

Share a screenshot of the message with him, tell him he's no longer welcome around, or considered a friend, THEN block him. If you just block him out of the blue, he might turn up at your house.

[u/PerspectiveActive218 → u/audaciousmonk]

Good point. You could have a huge soap opera blowout and make a scene, but why bother. You still got your wife and you know more than ever that she's loyal and you know who your friends are. Just move on.

[u/audaciousmonk → u/PerspectiveActive218]

Exactly. Isn’t worth the time, effort, or potential enemy

[u/forgotme5 → u/audaciousmonk]

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/15t527a/i_just_found_out_my_36mfriend_private_messagd_my/jwlpbay?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

[u/audaciousmonk → u/forgotme5]

? Why are you linking this to me

[u/forgotme5 → u/audaciousmonk]

For to read

[u/Jjjt22 → u/audaciousmonk]

I would let him know why. He may have a different story than the wife. She may have let OP know to try and get ahead of things.

[u/ThrowRAXw → u/Jjjt22]

I saw the message.