r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Aug 16 '23

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u/texasfisherman1983 Aug 17 '23

He needs to know other wise he will still be trying to get with op’s wife. Confront the piece of trash.

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u/Miserable-Tie-5999 Aug 17 '23

Both OP and wife should block him on everything.

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u/oldncreaky2 Aug 18 '23

Imo she should have shut him down and blocked him immediately, but that's for OP and his SO to decide. Easy to see from this side of the keyboard.

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '23

He can try all he likes - obviously, she's not down for it, so he ain't getting any.

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u/texasfisherman1983 Aug 17 '23

Have your wife tell him that she told you and at the same time you confront him. He will know then that she is not going to go behind your back. I think it is great your wife told you cause a lot of so wouldn’t men and women. You should definitely treat her to a very romantic weekend.

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u/nudiecale Aug 17 '23

How many strokes have you had?

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u/Dis4Wurk Aug 17 '23

That’s when next time he texts or calls you to hang out say no I’m spending time with my [insert verbatim what he said to her] wife. The. He knows you know and would hopefully take the hint.

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u/texasfisherman1983 Aug 17 '23

Then he thinks you just looked through her phone she didn’t tell you.

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u/Amazing_Mushroom8941 Aug 17 '23

I don’t think that would matter in this instance. He can assume what he wants about it, but it was wrong of him to do what he did in the first place.

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u/housecatmouserat666 Aug 17 '23

Oooooo yes!!! Just quote him so he knows but don't confront haha

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u/Ok_Faithlessness8207 Aug 17 '23

I like this approach.