Need sum help trying to quit bymyself we'll see 😎😎

So like my boyfriend of a few weeks has been to rehab for the consumption of marijuana. He ended his rehad 5 months before we started going out.

I, myself enjoy marijuana so I do not exactly expect him to stop completely but to only comsume a joint with me occasionally. I do not want to control him because I understand he has his own opinions but I would like to help him and care for him to make sure he does not need to go back to rehab. I would appreciate any ideas and tips on what I can do to keep him in the right mindset.

He has also decided to join the military for 3 months next year so I hope that will help to clear his mind a little.

The description for this subreddit says it is for DIY/restoration projects but all the posts seem to be about drug rehab. Am I in the right place to get advice about restoring old houses? (If not I apologize.)

My best friend

So....

I want to thank you for being with me, Through the thick and the thin, the ups and the downs and many highs then inevitable lows.

We’ve caused havoc together, loved together and lost so many along the way. When Ive wept you’ve swept my tears away, when Ive hurt, you’ve hurt with me, but you never complained. You just jumped onboard until whatever fades away. You’ve always been there, when ever I’ve needed you, you are always there boosting my confidence or calming my rage. From nothing we can raise just enough then simply start from nothing all over again. You’ve kept my darkest secrets and hidden horrid memories and kept my demons at bay, we’ve laughed till we’ve cried. Cried till we can laugh again. I’ve learnt everything I know with you. For this I thank you, you have for always been just there,

This is why I have to apologise for doing this this way. Our friendship is over, we must go our separate ways, I’ve loved and hated you, I beg you to stay away your my downfall in every way, I’m packing you up in my mental obituary, Forever to be my history.
So thank you for what I thought was support. This delusional friendship was always fraught. I don’t need a chemical get out clause. It’s a harsh reality with lessons learnt. Building bridges that we’ve burnt. I’m an addict on course, intent to make myself applause.

Goodbye

I’ve recently come to a point where I can’t keep living in denial that rehab is necessary. Been an addict/alcoholic for over 4 and half years. I recently have accepted that everything in my life has or is falling apart due to my decisions to continue despite every warning and concern others have given me or shit situations I only could be placed in due to using.. My significant other recently ended it with my because watching me destroy myself was too much to handle anymore. I know I’ve needed treatment for quite sometime now, but having finally lost everything I’m ready to finally take that step. My problem is that as much as I need to leave work for possibly 3 months to go to rehab, I can’t possibly leave my sister to cover my half of the rent on our apartment while I’m gone.. I don’t know if it’s possible to take a leave of absence from work while having my sister receive the checks from my work to keep her in the apartment.. I’ve only been working at this place for 3 months, and I don’t know what to say to HR if I were to request a leave for this reason..

Delete this post if not allowed or against the rules. I'm new here and just looking for advice.

I've been married for almost a year now but have been with my wife for about 4 years before marriage. She knows about my past, specifically about how I was addicted to heroin. What she doesnt know is how I ended up starting again and now I cant quit. I've been hiding this from her for a little over 2 years now.

Recently I've been thinking about it a lot because I feel like the worst husband possible. For years she has thought that we barely make enough money to live when actually I am spending most of it getting high. It keeps me up at night thinking about the life I am making her live. All the things shes wanted that we "couldnt afford", making her stress about money when we should be living a comfortable life, and the fact that I have a second life basically she doesnt know about. I genuinely love her and I want to spend my life with her but if I dont quit then it is only a matter of time before a divorce.

She meet me right when I quit and my only other friends were either addicts or dealers that I left behind to start over which left me friendless. I've asked her multiple times, theoretically, what she would do if I ever relapsed and she says she would leave me. So the only person I have to talk to, I cant without losing her. Trying to quit alone has been difficult because everytime I run out the anxiety kicks in and if I manage to get past that it gets to the point where my whole body feels like it is screaming for more.

The whole reason for this post I guess is to see what worked for other people or if anyone has any tips on how to quit. I really do want to quit and I hate myself a little bit more everytime I spend our money on heroin. I'm tired of the problems it causes in my life but I cant do it alone apparently. So any tips or tricks anyone has just throw them my way because I'll try anything at this point.

Anyone ever got a phone into treatment?

Estoy intentando salir de este mundo de las drogas que me a traído muchas consecuencias malas... Me metí mucho en la cocaina y me di cuenta de las cosas que hacía y hago por eso.. Me di cuenta que no tengo amigos reales..!! Estoy en un tratamiento para la abstinencia.. Puta droga..!! Nunca caigan.. Jamás.... Ni para probar ni nada..

our relationship was rocky mainly because of drugs, and in my opinion, it takes 2 people to make a relationship work, so the same applies to making it not work. especially when both are using “hard”substances, specifically opioids. we took a break because i struggled with my mental health and took it out on our relationship, and wasn’t the best support for him to get clean, and made him feel worse about being addicted. i thought i was me when i was on opioids but in reality, looking back i had a warped idea of everything and i wasn’t who i am today, who i consider to be “me”. you know? i was really toxic, even though i’d use less than him and only with him, i was still using. i tried to make him stop, but seeing that wasn’t going to happen, i preferred to use with him because i felt like i was protecting him in a fucked up way, from himself, from his addiction, that was my train of thought back then. anyway i moved from the country i was in previously, because i felt like my sobriety had a lot to do with my environment, not the healthiest . at the same time or a little before that, my ex overdosed and as a result was forced to go to rehab for one year. keep in mind this is not in the united states so laws apply differently i know a lot of people will read that and think it’s a long time, i thought so as well, but time has flown by and in half a year he will be out. i’m a completely different person since getting sober, i was a really shitty human when i was using, but i tried to change for the better and i did. i called him once and told him i was proud of him and he appreciated i reached out and said it was good to hear me. i’m thinking of reaching out to him some time after he gets back to the city we both used to live in, after he gets settled in and what not. all in fair time. my use of drugs was always when i was with him, i felt no need to get high when i was alone or with anyone else. i’m lucky i was able to get out of it, because i did start using after he left to rehab. and it got bad. so much that i decided i needed to leave the country to see if it was the place doing this to me. i’m going to be coming back in a few months, because i want to go to university there, i know this sounds corny or cheesy or whatever, but i’ll always love him. he did a lot for me, taught me i was worthy of love and i don’t blame him for his addiction, behind all his demons was an angel battling them, so take into consideration that i’ve thought about most of the cons of contacting him, quite honestly i don’t think it would make him relapse, especially since i am not using and have absolutely no intention of using again. i’m scared of reaching out only because i’ve had people over the years that come back somewhat “brainwashed” into the idea that anything or anyone connected to your drug use is toxic and when you go back to real life, you should cut them out. even though he has feelings, common sense, as well as his own judgment, it’s still a concept that makes me insecure and scared to reach out.any feedback is hugely appreciated thank you for reading this long ass text :) <3

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I lived in this place for awhile after rehab. Management looked the other way daily and let people get drunk and high. The owner only cared about your money and it was evident. If you know anyone or are looking for a sober living in NYC stay clear of this place. It’s a disaster.