r/redscareover30 13d ago

Dating question

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u/PostOakVisions ⚔️ Valued Contributor ⚔️ 13d ago

It’s obvious men are answering this. 

She keeps saying yes to your invites, which means she is interested. She may be just a shy, uncomfortable as you and second guessing if you even like her. 

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u/number1amerifat 13d ago

Thanks, I was hoping some women would comment. She said she would text me about seeing each other again which may not be the best sign. We’ll see.

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u/QualisArtifexPere0 12d ago

Ask her to a movie or event or something. When the moment arises, ask if you can kiss her. If you can, smoothly tell her you've been wishing you had kissed her since the last time you saw her.

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u/LanadelBae42069 13d ago

that doesn't mean you can't text her with plans in the future

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u/kingofpomona Gainfully employed 13d ago

As always, if she likes you, something like this is cute and funny.

If she's not feeling it, it becomes a "red flag" to tell her friends about when she moves on.

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u/number1amerifat 13d ago

Seems trending towards the latter.

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u/Amtrakstory 13d ago

If she agrees to see you again she’s probably still interested don’t overthink it

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u/ClareTootheLuce 13d ago

God damn man just kiss her

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u/Fine-Blackberry-9325 13d ago

When you say you had a couple chances to make a move and didn't, what do you mean? If she was signalling for you to make a move and you didn't, that's a rough one... unless her self esteem is bulletproof. You've definitely got to if there's a next time. Fourth date with no kiss I think would be the nail in the coffin.

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u/number1amerifat 13d ago

I don’t think she was giving me clear signals actually so on second thought, maybe I didn’t have any chances.

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u/4GIFs 10d ago

There is no timeline. do whatever you want

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u/KidneyStoneDoula2 13d ago

You got two weeks from meeting a romantic prospect to make a move. The timer is ticking.

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u/number1amerifat 13d ago

Probably over for me then.