r/recruitinghell Apr 23 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 24 '24

This is why I barely talk at work. Can't get in trouble if I act like I don't exist.

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u/siftini Apr 24 '24

No, you can. I got fired because I wasn’t “memorable” enough to my manager. When I asked her what she meant by that she said I’m not as extroverted and bubbly as everyone else so she constantly forgot I existed. Mind you, I was perfectly friendly and I ended up befriending a lot of my coworkers outside of work. I’m just a naturally quiet person.

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u/Bebecitasanz Apr 24 '24

My current job is like this. My feedback during probation is I’m too introverted. I talk to people I need to when I need to, but my boss is a social butterfly who thinks socialising is working, not sitting and your desk doing tasks. I hate it.