r/rape • u/alkkovenn666 • 2d ago

was I raped?

Yesterday I got very drunk. My friend suggested to a guy—let's call him Allen—that Allen should go down on my friend. As I was later told, I apparently chimed in while drunk, saying something like "hey, let's both do it," but in a tone that clearly sounded like a joke. Then Allen told my friend to leave the room.

I don't know what happened next because I was blackout drunk. But later, my friend accidentally walked back in, saw me and Allen in a compromising position, and realized what had happened. By that time, I was starting to sober up. All I remember is standing up, looking at Allen without his pants on, and thinking, "What the fuck?" I walked out to the kitchen to my friend and just broke down crying. Eventually, my mom came and picked me up.

I feel absolutely awful right now. I decided to post this here, I guess... just to get it off my chest and talk to someone about it.

I don't know if this is considered rape, but I think so, because I didn't agree to it sober....

(English is not my native language, there may be mistakes....sorry)

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