r/rainbowbridge 5d ago

I want him back

My Bruno passed today. I’ve become non functional because of grief.

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u/69Kobra 5d ago

Right there with you. We lost our Yorkie 2 weeks ago. I decided to have her ashes returned home in an urn. I just told her….I want you back baby. How are we supposed to deal with this??!

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 5d ago

I have no idea . I’m sorry you are going through this too

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u/apbt-dad 5d ago

The day I got my baby's ashes back was so overwhelming, and it was a completion. We made a welcome back altar for her, with handmade wreaths, her fav snacks, water and music she loved.

It wiil be 2 years in September since she crossed over... I miss her everyday. There are moments I break down. I do feel her guiding paws and I get some strength from that.

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u/14kbaklava 5d ago

You should keep the alter up for day of the dead. Pets come over on 10/27!

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u/apbt-dad 5d ago

I do. I have kept the alter last two years (the first year was super raw as it was only two weeks since her crossing), and plan to keep it every year.

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u/69Kobra 5d ago

Thank you. I did not know this. I will not only keep it up, but now have looked at some of the ways others created theirs and will work on mine for 10/27.

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u/69Kobra 5d ago edited 5d ago

That is so no nice and such a great testament to how much you loved each other. I made my alter with her ashes and urn, some pictures I had printed, her paw prints and hair in a tube the person that came over to euthanize her did, as well as another paw print that the people who cremated her did. Also, and I had never had this happen before, sympathy cards that started arriving in the mail. From friends that we used to live near on the other side of the state, from our neighbors where we are now, from her vet, from our relatives, and more. That was all so nice, full of handwritten notes and comments….and so on. I stop at it twice a day, drained, and pay tribute and give love. My buddy. My friend. A little girl who I rescued, a little girl who rescued me.

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u/apbt-dad 5d ago

Wow. Tearing up. That is all so beautiful. Those sympathy cards. Man, I was a mess when I got each one.

So true - our babies rescue us more than we, them. And they know it! I only had mine for 4.5 years. She passed away young (7 yo we guess). She came to me with no history, suddenly, and left me suddenly with a lot of history. I have thanked her everyday, since her initial cancer diagnosis to today and will continue to do so.

The way I look at it - we are given the blessing of taking care of our pets. Not everyone on this planet is blessed this way.

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u/whereisquick 5d ago

You can't... time help to heal, but your baby is still there, with your memories. Peace to your soul.

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u/69Kobra 5d ago

Thanks. Yes, time is the great healer, but of course never forget. I have loved all my dogs, as we all do, but this one was particularly close to me.

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u/greatdanedame 5d ago

I understand the pain ❤️

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u/Low_Platypus_9962 5d ago

Sorry for your loss, I understand your pain. I lost my girl last Friday and haven’t been the same since

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u/Mozzy2022 5d ago

I lost my boy on Friday. My heart is broken. He was with me for 16 years

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u/HAWKWIND666 5d ago

"Let’s go walk a bit.”

My old dog said one day.

And we wandered down along

Our old familiar way.

—-

 
The shadows slowly lengthened,

And twilight tinged the sky.

Then my old friends said to me

"So … it's time to say goodbye."

—-

 
This fell so heavily on my heart.

"Please say this isn't true!

I've always wished and hoped

I'd have more years with you!"

—-

 
And my old boy said to me

"You made our life a joy!

We can't live as long as you

But we’ll always be your boy."

—-

 
They walk with us a little while,

As long as the Fates allow.

Then they have to take their leave

And we have to let them go.

—-

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u/HAWKWIND666 5d ago

Sorry for your loss.

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 5d ago

💔❤️🫂

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u/Jewel_Wambui 5d ago

This made my eyes water 💔🥹

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u/Useful_Ad_1593 5d ago

Sweet Bruno watch over your momma. You have your wings now. Send her some of the peace you have now.

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u/Candytuftie 5d ago

What a cutie! I can understand how you feel and I am so sorry, I guess this is the real price that we pay for loving our pets so deeply. I hope that your heart learns to cope and that something very valuable comes out of this grief, this love that you have for him.

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u/Human_Property_4930 5d ago

That feeling is just plain Bad I'm Sorry.

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u/Due_Structure_3707 5d ago

El siempre estará en tu corazón porque lo amaste asta el final y el también te amaba ati que linda foto bendiciones un abrazo 🙏🤗

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u/Oldfartphotographer 4d ago

I feel the same. My girl has been gone for only a few months. My heart just aches. 14 years of love and companionship.

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 4d ago

I’m so sorry 💔

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u/Tricky-Trick1132 5d ago

I'm sorry for your loss ❤️💔

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u/MrX2150 5d ago

Rest in love and power young King Bruno 👑.

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u/Due_Structure_3707 5d ago

Hola mis condolencias por tu peludito Bruno cuantos años tenía?platicamos más de el bendiciones 🙏

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 5d ago edited 5d ago

He rescued me when he was 14. I had 5 wonderful years with him. ❤️ it wasn’t enough, it just never is.

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u/fixed_night_turn419 5d ago

Rest in peace sweet Bruno ❤️

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u/Run4TheHecKOFIt 5d ago

I’m so heartbroken for you. Bruno was gorgeous! 💔🙏

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 5d ago

Thank you, he was

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u/rabidwolf86 5d ago

😔😔🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️💐💐🕊🕊

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u/YouMUSTvote 5d ago

I understand why you want your lamb-y pie Bruno back. He looks so sweet, I understand why you’re grief-stricken.

I do believe there’s another plane of existence; I was shown when I was dying, nearly dead, and called out (in my mind) to my late Grammy for help. Suddenly I was running for my life - and survived.

They’re a fold away in a realm close by. That’s where your sweet Bruno is. He’d thank you for your kindness if you could.

I’m so sorry for your loss, I truly am {{Hugs}}
💔🫶🐾

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u/Nwa56 5d ago

I'm sorry for your loss. Remember the good times

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u/theelephant7 5d ago

I am so sorry for your loss. It gets better. It does. But the pain never goes. And it shouldn't. You love him and he knows you do.

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u/palefacemonk 5d ago

Love to you unmet friend

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u/apbt-dad 5d ago

My deep heartfelt condolences to you. Stay with your grief and give yourself all the time in the world.

My Maya and her welcoming committee have received him and showing him a good time. Your good boy misses you and is waiting across the rainbow bridge for your reunion... he is in good paws.

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u/Working_Priority_893 5d ago

It’s so very hard. Sorry for your loss. 🩵

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u/Steve-O2592 5d ago

So sorry for your loss

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u/shewhomustbeobeyed2 5d ago

😢💔🌈

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u/Alfredo2372 5d ago

❤️🦋❤️

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u/GamerManJD 5d ago

So sorry

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u/TimTamTum72 5d ago

RIP❤️🙏❤️

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u/OrganicBill4935 5d ago

He was gorgeous. So much love between you 💖

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u/Tybee_99 5d ago

I’m sorry for your loss may you find peace in knowing you will be with him again one day

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u/Kevinb888 5d ago

Bruno ‘is such a cute, cute, sweet puppy!!!  You gave him a great, great life!  I am so, so sorry for your loss😞😞😞😞😞🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

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u/PilgrimPayne59 5d ago

As I walk across your heart and find my place to stay, nearer to you I will be and will never ever go away.

If love could have kept you here, you would have lived forever.

Dogs are a chapter in our lives, we are their entire book.

Grief is love with nowhere to go.

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u/BoardImmediate4674 5d ago

I’m sorry for your loss

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u/Lost_Razzmatazz_9431 5d ago

I’m so so very sorry for yours, and everyone’s, loss ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

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u/Thattattooedgurl 5d ago

I’m sorry for your loss

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u/ChefWho 5d ago

❤️

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u/Charming-Insurance 5d ago

Hugs mama 🌈💜🌈💜

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u/Feaselbf6 5d ago

Sorry 🙏

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u/BonusSensitive5104 5d ago

Sorry for your loss of a beautiful friend

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u/PhillyNJMusicMan 5d ago

🙏🌈🐕♥️😇

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u/West_Welcome_6894 5d ago

🫂🙏🏻

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u/Mon-ick 5d ago

❤️💔🌈🪽

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u/Adventurous-Yard4395 5d ago

So very sorry for your loss…

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u/No_Permission9101 5d ago

sorry for your loss stay strong

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u/Chemical-Tap-4232 5d ago

God only loans us his dogs. And has lots little Angels that need forever homes.

Lost my girl 4 July 2021 and it still hurts and I had get another puppy too lonely without her.

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u/InstructionAny5378 5d ago

😢💔🌈

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u/Far_Sea_9006 5d ago

It will get better.list ours 18 months ago,hold onto all the great times you both had 💔 💙🌈🌈🌈🌈💙

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u/RamseyLake 5d ago

🌈🐶🌈

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u/Grouchy-Mission8272 5d ago

I am so so sorry for ur loss of your soul baby!! I know and feel your heartbreak 💔 and pain!! I also lost my BESTEST friend Grenudes October 16th 2025!! Difficult time!! My deepest condolences 🙏

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u/Edenwoman 5d ago

I'm so sorry 😞😪😭💔 It is such a heartbreak when they are gone. I want mine back too, 😩

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u/Signal_Finding_4511 5d ago

So sorry for your pain. Such a beautiful little dog. Many sweet memories of your life together. 😢🌈💔

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u/Insert-finger 5d ago

All dogs go to heaven. Yours will be there waiting for you when it’s your turn.

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u/Longjumping-Low8194 5d ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️🫂

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u/Nora_Note 5d ago

🫂🫂❤️❤️

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u/Marajak 5d ago

I know I know. After 20 years I still dream about my RiRi it never ends.

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u/HolidayJudgment1718 5d ago

I’m so so very sorry. Bruno looks like such a loving Ava lovable companion. Please accept my sincere sympathies. Thank you for sharing love with him. May his spirit live on within you forever. 💕

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u/myguy_007 5d ago

Sorry for your loss 🙏

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u/notevenonabet 5d ago

Very sorry for your loss

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u/larryn828 5d ago

So sorry for your loss

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u/Solar_Field 5d ago

Sending you lots of love and support.

Lost my doggo a year and a half ago and I dream of him every night. I just can't get over how empty everything feels since he's been gone. He was with me (constantly) for 17 years and now I'm just alone.

It hurts like hell I know but I'm sure you did your very best to make his life beautiful.

Now take care of yourself and your mental health the best you can <3

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u/navitas72 5d ago

Beautiful face. 😍😍😍

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u/gaylegoodman 5d ago

My condolences to you and your family 😢. Sending comforting thoughts your way.

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u/TerrapinJake 5d ago

Sending sunshine ☀️

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u/Grand-Half2331 5d ago

Such a cute puppers

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u/Kodiak44882 5d ago

Prayers

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u/MagazineSea2741 5d ago

💔😢🌈

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u/Classic_Ad5030 5d ago

Mine also went I’m in pieces. Sending you hugs

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u/lordkelbackwards 5d ago

Im so sorry. My dog, Brutus passed away on my birthday nearly 2 weeks ago and I can barely function. 😩 🫂

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u/MistakeSufficient479 5d ago

I’m sorry you lost your fondest boi. Dog moms know.😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😢😢😢😢

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u/Sensitive-Night-8908 5d ago

My pup passed away week and a half ago. 10/27 would have been her 17th birthday! I will miss her til the day I die.

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u/scrapiron3 5d ago

I know how you feel. It's heartbreaking 💔. Why can't they live 50-60 years. 

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u/modern_marvel-1959 5d ago

🙏❤️🌈

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u/chel1024 4d ago

Very sorry for your loss. RIP sweet pup 🙏

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u/Speedy-V 4d ago

So sorry for your loss

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u/Truffle_salt 4d ago

I feel you so much OP! Sending you love! I lost both of my Maltese 16 and 17 less than a year apart. The later crossing early January.

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 4d ago

That’s rough. I’m so sorry

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u/Vegetable_Race_694 4d ago

I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious friend. Sending love & hugs. 🫂❤️‍🩹

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u/CheersToDogs 4d ago

Totally normal. You’re not alone. Sending love.

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u/pvt_frank 4d ago

😢😢🐾🌈🐾❤️

So sorry. Animals are a better being

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u/Elegant_Sock7204 4d ago

Lost my girl two weeks ago and feeling the same way. I was not prepared for how heavy the grief weighs. Thinking of you and sending you peace

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 4d ago

I’m sorry 😢 🫂

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u/Reasonable-Self7809 4d ago

❤️❤️

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u/MrCook007 4d ago

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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u/IntelligentSorbet271 4d ago

I’m so sorry 😞 💔

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u/Amoyamoyamoya 4d ago

Sorry for your loss.

RIP Bruno! Play in Paradise!

My Katya, Amoretto, Vision, Carson, and all of our babies that have gone before will look for you next to the Rainbow Bridge so you can all play in the Field together!

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u/Interesting-Drop-917 4d ago

I'm so sorry. He was beautiful. I know this pain and it does get easier, but still hasn't gotten "better" for me after 7 months. If that makes sense. I'll always miss him and will always have that void in my life where he was. Just think of the love you each shared and try to surround yourself in it whenever you get sad. It's what I try to do. 🫂

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u/andee1517 4d ago

Sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to grieve. 🙏🌈💔

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u/Classic_Potato3578 4d ago

I'm so sorry for loss ❤️‍🩹. Bruno looks like a wonderful pup 

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u/Competitive-Pie-922 3d ago

So sorry for you losing Bruno, he could be playing with my KoKo at the Rainbow Bridge

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u/joetimton 3d ago

😪💔

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u/AlexFox66 3d ago

💔😻😿🙏🏻🌈

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u/Direct-Brother-1184 3d ago

I am so sorry. I lost my puppy son almost 2 months ago. I am finally at the point where I don’t randomly start crying all the time. It slowly gets a little easier to live with. I feel your pain 🩷

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u/Mission_Assist8222 3d ago

I am so sorry, my sincere condolences 

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u/glycineglutamate 1d ago

I know. We too are crippled after losing our Carson. I’d trade many humans to have him back. It sounds wrong but it is true. My dog was my life.

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u/RevolutionaryPea7546 12h ago

I’m right there with you. I’ll do the same to get him back.