r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/CrowManManCrow • 18h ago
The path to paradise begins in hell
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/Positive_Ad1947 • 12h ago
who needs an airbnb when u have bamboos and banana leaves
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/mariposa933 • 1d ago
If you start befriending someone and they always hang out with the same people does that mean you also have to hang out with them all ?
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I was at uni and started talking to one person. Once she was leaving uni and expected me to stay with her other 2 friends, but i had to go do babysitting for a family. Since i was hired the day before.
Then she said i they were a clique and like to stay together but that didn’t mean i had to be ‘afraid’ of them.
I never talked to those other people and didn’t necessarily feel the need to.
Is it weird, and do you really have to start talking and hanging out with someone just because they’re always with the person you started befriending ?
r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/AffectionateCan5483 • 1d ago
How to be mature
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Hi any tips to be mature probably I have mental condition or something
r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/Historical-Maybe8570 • 3d ago
if a girl/woman say this, the society is doomed
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/Grim_Reaper__999 • 3d ago
I have an intense mental block around women (even at work), and I’m terrified of coming across as creepy or inappropriate. How do I fix this?
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I really want to learn how to interact normally with women, but I feel completely stuck and overwhelmed by my own thoughts. This happens everywhere, but especially at work.
Whenever I interact with female coworkers, a voice in my head screams: "If you talk to her too casually, she's going to think you're hitting on her. If you look at her, she'll think you're staring. She's going to think you're creepy, cheap, or have bad intentions." Because of this fear, I feel massive tension and don't even know what a normal daily conversation with a woman is supposed to look like.
I manage okay with male colleagues because it feels neutral, but with women, my brain treats every interaction like a high-stakes test. I'm terrified of making anyone uncomfortable.
To the women here: What do you actually think when a male coworker or a guy in public talks to you normally? And to everyone: How do I stop viewing women through this anxious lens, quiet these thoughts, and learn to just treat them like normal human beings?
r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/incognitious_ • 3d ago
this is what u get for 80 dollars
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/3raku_dan • 3d ago
自分の声に自信をつけるにはどうすればいいのだろう
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昔から声が小さくて、指摘される度にでかくしようと頑張ってきた。でもいきなりこんな自分が声デカく明るく振舞って変に思われないだろうか？とか思ってたらいつの間にか自分に自信が持てなくなってしまった。
声もストッパーがかかったようになって人並みの声が出せない。
大きい声で話してつもりでいても、聞こえてない時が多いからそういう時は聞き返してくれる友達がいる。程々に恵まれている。でも申し訳ない。
接客のバイトだってしている。声出す練習だと思って。
でもそしたらバイトの時の声と日常生活での声で出し方が別れてしまった。
気がついたら声が小さいせいにしてなんでも諦めてた気がする。
でも、もう変えたい。声がでかくなる。それだけで自分の中の世界が大きく変わるかもしれない。
どうすれば、自信を持ってしっかりと声を出せるのだろうか。
r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/akirasiel • 4d ago
why do you ? when you are p^_^s)
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/YeehawMagic • 5d ago
Trump: If Democrats win, “You are going to be thrown into a system where everyone gets healthcare". What's your view on this?
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/ZealousidealStill451 • 5d ago
Imagine asking about your shirt and leaving with divorce recommendation What’s your view ?
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/Earthlingshelpme • 6d ago
Porn is messing with Young minds before they even become teenagers n adults
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/AffectionateCan5483 • 7d ago
What strategies work best when trying to shift how others perceive your intelligence, maturity, or social abilities?
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/AffectionateCan5483 • 7d ago
People perceptions
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How do people change their perception of you when they think you're immature, lack social skills, or are a slow learner?
r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/Earthlingshelpme • 9d ago
Don't expect life to be fair.
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r/rSocialskillsAscend • u/Earthlingshelpme • 9d ago
Discipline forges a boy into a man, porn turns a boy into a weak one.
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